By Ashish Arora on August 30, 2013
Try again in life
You may have been able to make sure that everything is going well and your decisions have served well in the accomplishment of your big goals so far. But sometimes it doesn’t work, it really doesn’t work, maybe it seems to go wrong, all wrong. You have to take some decision hurriedly and soon after that you happen to realize that it was a wrong one. And the big question here arises is – Now what?
First of all, stop thinking negative. It is quite possible that negative thoughts will cross your mind time and again, during this phase when you find yourself out of track. Let them come and let them go. Don’t offer them enough space in your mind to stay there for a long period. Get involved in some recreational activities until you get it all correct and in your control.
Try again in life
Look, it may be a wrong decision but still you cannot resist it from being a right experience. It’s sour experiences, which give you the best opportunities to learn. So, learning from them, will help you be stronger and capable in making better decisions in future. They save you from going out of track in the coming time, when you are supposed to be running at a comparatively higher speed.
Further, whatever you learn from your last decisions’ resulting in bitter experiences, may not serve your current objective. But you can’t say that they will not work even for your big goal. They will do… they will work. Your goal may remain same but time and again you have to change the objectives. Those, which you had lined up in order to achieve your goal once.
If it didn’t work, move on
And don’t forget, your last experience is going to help you in some ways at this stage. And it will serve its best in your future objectives too. If an objective fails to serve the goal, you concentrate on another one, may be a new one. As soon as you realize its a failure, just move on and don’t wait till the cow comes home.
Remember, your time is not meant to be wasted but invested in your growth. Take it all positively and come out of the shell you have made for yourself. Also, explore new ways to make real your big dream. Do it as soon as possible, try again and make it work.
All the best…
