By Ashish Arora on March 16, 2014
Make difference in world
Some people want to make a difference in their own lives. Others look for a difference in the lives of their near and dear ones. There are some others who want to make a difference in the lives of some needy ones they know. And others want to seek a difference in the world.
We all want to know. We all want to grow. Also, we all want to be more in our lives. And, we all want our life and world to be better than its present form. Some people look for betterment of their personal life and world. Others are more concern about their professional goals. A few others dedicate lives for social issues.
Make difference in world
The point is this. It may be a personal development or relationship goal, a career or professional goal, or a social awareness drive. First, we need to seek and understand difference in our own selves. Then, we may look for or try to make it in others. Once we understand it in our own selves, we must accept the impacts that difference is going to bring out in our lives, world and society.
The next thing we must do is to respect the difference among all of us as human and society. Moreover, we must respect the change that is coming up next through our continuous effort. That is only possible if we are calling up positive change in order to evolve with it. And to be better humans in coming days. The drive to make a difference must be for a good reason only.
Understand, accept, respect difference
If change is for the sake of change or if it is just what we want to see in others but it doesn’t resonate with our own selves, it is just our ego not a true difference we want to bring about. In personal life, your current scenario and future persona both must be acceptable by you comfortably. In a relationship, you both have to accept your current position and upcoming change in each other and for each other positively.
We all are different. We all are same. But, we all are connected. Further, social life or social betterment is no different. If its positive changes and differences that you call through social work, activism and protests, it can bring miraculous results. But, if the motives are self, political or other vested interests, dangerous outcomes beyond imagination can occur.
Before looking for any small or big changes in life and world at any level, we have to be ready for dire consequence. If those differences are not properly understood, accepted and respected by our own selves first.