By Ashish Arora on July 30, 2013
Power of silence and words
Silence and words become substitutes to each other at the moment words opt to keep quiet and silence starts speaking. This happens due to immense understanding between two people. It feels good when you know that someone may ignore your words but cannot ignore your silence. In fact, silence is the best expression when words seem to be misunderstood.
It’s true that silence is the best expression but sometimes it also leads to misunderstanding. But it’s okay to be misunderstood at a moment. It takes time and efforts to build a true understanding between people who are new to each other. Or who have not spent enough time together in their life.
Power of silence and words
However, when you give importance to someone who doesn’t give it back to you… it hurts only… and sometimes, some situations give you nothing but a lifetime experience. Further, you want to leave those places, things and people who hurt you.
However, next happens this. Howsoever you dislike a place, thing or person, but when you leave it or that damn creation leaves you, you have to miss it. Because you were a part of it and it was a part of you at some point of time. So, you are missing a share of yourself now.
When they hurt you
And sometimes you again happen to visit same places, doing same things, around same people who can hurt you once again in life. Do we get same level of pain after hurt again by the same stone? Maybe or may be not. It depends on how intense is the situation, how hard is the time, how forcefully the stone hurled and how stronger you are, at this moment.
But side-effect of trust is that when you realize that people are fake, you have already wasted significant time and efforts on them. So, those who don’t care, don’t try every now and then to make them know how much you care because they will never understand.
Be happy with yourself, enjoy yourself…
