By Ashish Arora on June 14, 2014
Shocking or surprising moments
You must have seen many people who get shock once they hear something a little out of league. Also, you must have noticed some people getting surprises on a little abnormal happening about someone. These people may be younger or older in age, but why do they get shocks or surprises so easily? When their expectation collides with reality, they get shocked or surprised.
Things happen, every kind of things happen if not in your life then in others’ life. Maybe some things of your life seem shocking or surprising to others in same way as you found their life happenings shocking or surprising. It’s not important that whatever happening in your life should happen in others’ too and vice versa. Everyone has their own way of living a life and it’s a good sign because it creates versatility in the world.
Shocking or surprising moments
Entry or exit of some people in someone’s life may be shocking or surprising to others. Someone’s lifestyle maybe so weird to you that you couldn’t resist being shocked. Your career choice maybe so out of the box that it would have surprised someone when they heard of it. However, those people, those lifestyles and those career choices are quite normal to others, who are comfortable with them in their lives.
Look, people’s philosophy of life, their psychology of mind, their style of living collectively create their story of life in this world. That’s why we hear as many stories as many people me meet. It’s quite interesting to hear lots of stories of lives, which you are not living. But you can feel, experiences, evolve and get mature in your life with these vivid range of life stories.
Learn from life
Resistance from acceptance is a sign of immaturity in people, weather they are younger or older. You should be open, flexible and mature about accepting the most uncommon tales of the world. These are learning in life and you should first accept everything around you without having a sudden shock or surprise.
Then you will be able to decide that what is good for your life and what is bad. Being always ready for acceptance doesn’t mean that you have to absorb every thing in your life too, weather you like it or dislike. Nothing is shocking or surprising in this world. Our reaction is the outcome of conflict between our expectation and the reality.
