By Ashish Arora on November 30, 2013
Other side of coin
In marketing they say, the products that buyer can see are the products that sell. Without attracting the eyeballs of people, your product and services are of no value. And that’s why promotion and publicity are most important factors of business marketing.
But here we are not going to discuss about the marketing fundamentals. The point is that in our life also what we see through our own eyes and what we hear through our own ears are supposed to be the reality. But under this conditioning, we often miss out to judge the people and circumstances correctly.
Other side of coin
When we superficially know a person who is a little angry or rude with us or with other people, we start believing that he or she is having a very bad temper or ego problem. But actually, we may be wrong in our judgement about them. Because they may have been facing one or more big problems in lives at that point of time. That mey made them so rough with other people.
Sometimes, we come into contact with some person who seems to be old fashioned. Or who don’t follow common trends of this age while selecting his/her apparels in daily life or at special occasions. And we imagine that they have no fashion sense or maybe no enough money to go with the latest trends.
Why judge them!
This time while judging them, we forget to respect their choice of simplicity in their life. When someone had to take a big decision in a country’s politics, administration, sports or entertainment fields, and that goes wrong or maybe some of us do not agree with that, what we do? We claim that if we had been at their place, we would have made an alternate decision.
We forget that how tough would have been for them to take a decision at that level in the presence of all sort of pressures, responsibilities and expectations from all around. Moreover, we always see only one side of the coin and have full belief in it. And forget that other face of the coin holds the reality.
