By Ashish Arora on June 30, 2012
Love is not scalable
Love cannot be scaled, whether it’s mine, yours or anybody else’s. It possesses an infinite existence, with neither a start, nor an end. How can you scale your love for them? How can you compare their love with yours? What is the meter to scale the love in the world? What is the method or formula to calculate love in a life?
There may be billions who confess their love to someone, saying they love them more than anything else in the world. Have they calculated the intensity of their love in comparison to that ‘anything’? How have they measured their love for the one they have just confessed to? And when they don’t find their love of life or lose them, they go into depression.
Love is not scalable or measurable
If they had so much love for someone that they cannot even measure it, can they indeed go into depression, in the first place? How did so much of love in them have not been able to save them from going into the dark? After all, love is full of light. Most probably, it was not love and just attraction, infatuation, crush or physical and emotional needs. Whose love is bigger then – mine, yours or any body else’s?
We should rather find out if it is really love than determining its size and intensity and deceiving yourself and the ‘someone’ you call your ‘love’. If the love is real and true, my love cannot be lesser than yours and your love cannot be more than mine. But there may be matter of intentions and feelings – I may have innocent feelings for you and you may have more practical intentions while coming into ‘love terms’ with me.
Infinite, eternal being
Does love start and never end or it begins to find an end forever? Does it comes to stay or it goes to never come back? It totally depends on person to person, life to life, world to world, feelings to feelings, intentions to intentions and story to story. As a person I am different from you. My life, my world and my story is different from yours. My feelings can be more intense and your intentions can be more practical.
However, love is there in every air, water and soil. It exists as an infinite, eternal being. It comes to stay or goes and returns. Also It has no start. And it has no end. By any means, its measurement is not possible.
