By Ashish Arora on May 30, 2014
How you see yourself
What will people say if they look at me doing this? What will others think if they look at me like this? Or, what will they feel after hearing this about me? Do you keep thinking these things while looking at yourself? Do these questions trap you when you want to do something? Is people’s opinion most important about how you look or what you do?
If this is more or less a truth of your life, you must think about yourself once again. Look, it’s you and your life. How will you want to look like or what you want to do are totally your choices. Even, how you want to live your life is also your decision. You must live on your conditions, not on terms of the random people of the world. But you must make sure that you are not harming yourself or anyone by doing this.
How you see yourself
I am not saying that your acts should be every time rebellious in the world. But world has nothing to do with your personal matters. I am also not saying, your acts should be every time against the will of your near and dear ones. You should respect their views and make sure to not take any action that can hurt them. Because they are important to you. And you are nothing without their existence in your life.
You may be politically incorrect but you must be legally, ethically and morally correct to live a happy life. However, in general each of the big and small decisions of your personal life has nothing to do with the views of those random people, whom neither you know nor they know you.
You are answerable to yourself
What people will say, what people will think, what people will feel, that’s all has nothing to do with your life. You don’t have to be so much self-obsessed because you are not that much important for other people. In the same way, you need not be so much people-obsessed because they don’t have that much importance in your life.
Just be confident and comfortably fine about how you look at what you are doing. Until and unless you know there is nothing wrong with anything you do,you are not answerable for any of your acts to people of the world, but to you yourself. At the end of the day, what matters is how you want to see yourself.
