By Ashish Arora on November 30, 2014
Do not share with everyone
Sometimes, the best you can do is to keep it to yourself. Why? Do you want to know that? Are you asking about the context which I am talking in? Ok… let me tell you,it’s about each and every context, personal or professional. You just cannot and should not do publicity of your every next decision. Because it can be very harmful for you.
Many times when you want to take small or big step in life, weather personal or professional, you are so much excited about it that you cannot hold your feelings inside. You start publicizing it, intentionally or unintentionally, all over your world. You just say it all to the people you know wherever you go, without giving a thought to the consequences of doing this.
Do not share with everyone
However, when your things are all out, you realize that you should have kept quite. There are many reasons to not tell people about your crucial steps before they are materialized. May be you are over excited today and telling them about your coming step in life, but someday if you change your mind then how will you answer their questions?
Even if you didn’t lose interest in your plans but things didn’t go in the way you expected, will not they ask you again? And why should you explain everything to them? Why to make a situation where explanation becomes a requisite one day? Moreover, there is no need to tell them your plans today and there will never be a need for explanation the next day.
On the other hand, there are many disadvantages of sharing your plans with random people you know in the world. At college level, your batch-mates may use your words against your career out of jealousy. At your workplace, your colleagues may use your plans against your growth out of cheap politics. In your business, your competitors may use your ideas against your progress out of competition.
You must be careful
Further, it’s not only about your professional life goals. As you grow up as a mature person, you realize that you must be couscous about your personal matters too. You don’t have to make everyone part of it all the time. Furthermore, you should tell your feelings only and directly to those who you want to and who deserve it. And that also should not be shared in the wave of emotions or with bad intentions.
You must be careful about what you are sharing to whom. And you must keep it to yourself, until and unless the sharing is required.
