By Ashish Arora on August 16, 2013
Be honest and innocent
Be honest, be innocent and people will deceive you, hurt you, but believe me, you will not be harmed. Surprised? How is it possible? It’s really possible and that’s the only possibility in the world. So, don’t worry about it. It’s easy too. Perhaps, nothing can be easier that that in life. You just have to keep your goodness alive.
Many times, in greed of small benefits like money, position, promotion, power, name, fame or any other worldly comfort, people tend to deceive you, cheat on you, leave you alone. On the other hand, you have to face a thought that how someone, you trusted someday, have food you. Later, you start pondering on chances if and when you can take revenge or deceive them in return.
Be honest and innocent in life
In spite of, maybe you just start hurting yourself inside out. Or having a guilt feeling to trust someone and duped by them in the past. May not knowingly but in your unconscious mind, you are still having a guilt feeling that is constantly hurting you. After all, a mind is the biggest and safest locker, treasuring tons of secretes of the world, which you may know or may not be knowing.
In such situation, what can you do? Don’t blame yourself at least. Also, stop making such a scene of being guilty in your mind now. What happened has already happened. It cannot change. Moreover, a vengeful feeling can do no good to it. You are harming yourself in your mind by time and again going into a situation, which doesn’t even exist now.
No one can harm you
It happened in the past. Be careful that it doesn’t happen again in the future. But don’t harm your present moment with these vengeful and guilt feelings. So, come out of all this, move on. Also, keep being honest and innocent with yourself and others. Someone can deceive you, but no one can harm you.
Memories tend to fade away, emotions may persist… Messages in draft which were never meant to be sent, are meant to be discarded… Some old files and folders deleted, some new files and folders created… That’s life which always moves on… “The show must go on…”
