By Ashish Arora on July 16, 2014
Be the change you want to see
The way you want the world to be, the way you want yourself to be. There is no other way you see. Can you understand this? It’s not that much tough to understand, yet not too easy to follow. However, with a little care for this rule and a little change in attitude, this is quite doable.
Many times we expect from others a lot in terms of their manners, behavior and attitude. We want to see everything and everyone around us to be perfect, to look perfect and to do perfectly. However, should we actually care for this? Most importantly, do we really deserve this?
Be the change you want to see in the world
Well, there is nothing wrong in caring for everything and everyone around us to be, look or do perfect. But we deserve this only if we care for being, looking or doing ourselves in the same way i.e. perfect. It’s not just about perfection, it’s about any other quality we want people around us to possess.
If we ourselves don’t have good manners for people, if we don’t behave properly with others or if we don’t show positive attitude life, we should not expect the same from the world too.Sometimes, we say that people don’t act like educated ones. We can say this only if we also show the etiquette of educated guys.
If we feel that people must do something for a social impact around them, we ourselves should care for that and do whatever change we can bring in our surroundings. If we say that people are not a help, supportive or human these days, we must see if we are having same qualities in the first place. Look at the truth here. Sometimes, we expect from the world much more than we are doing for the world.
Try giving to the universe
We want to take from the nature a lot but forget to give any care to it. We blame people for their errors without looking into our own collars. And, we claim everything, everyone to be too small without seeing our own reality. What I mean to say this all is that whatever you expect from the universe, first of all we must deserve that.
Know it first what you can give to the world before looking at what can you take from the world. Care for the nature, human and other creatures before expecting perfection, support, help, humanity, manners, behavior etiquette and positive attitude. Before you expect some good qualities from others, imbibe those qualities in yourself first.
